Sunday Word: Contumely
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contumely [kon-too-muh-lee, -tyoo-, kuhn-too-muh-lee, -tyoo-, kon-tuhm-lee, -tyoom, -chuhm ]
noun:
1 insulting display of contempt in words or actions; contemptuous or humiliating treatment
2 a humiliating insult
Examples:
There's a big difference between despised love and disprized love, and between a proud man's contumely and a poor man's contumely. (Stephen Marche, The Algorithm That Could Take Us Inside Shakespeare's Mind, The New York Times, November 2021)
Few things irritate me as much as the contumely heaped generally upon escorted tours. (Anthony Peregrine, Why you're wrong about coach tours - they are the greatest way to travel, The Telegraph, June 2019)
Lloyd, who's played by Matthew Rhys, of The Americans, is not happy about this assignment. His specialty is the exposé - heaping contumely on public figures who he feels deserve it. (Kurt Loder, Review: A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood, Reason Magazine, November 2019)
The Speccie's star columnist is the rudest man in Christendom, the Godzilla of contumely, an all-time non-sufferer of fools who horsewhips his targets the way Hunter S Thompson and Christopher Hitchens once did. (Kyle Smith, The (Other) Greatest Magazine in the English-Speaking World, National Review, April 2020)
But one of her day-dreams was that in some mysterious and unthinkable way Peter Penhallow should fall in love with her and sue for her hand, only to be spurned with contumely. (L M Montgomery, A Tangled Web)
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Origin:
'insolent, offensive, abusive speech,' late 14c, from Old French contumelie, from Latin contumelia 'a reproach, insult,' probably derived from contumax 'haughty, stubborn, insolent, unyielding,' used especially of those who refused to appear in a court of justice in answer to a lawful summons, from assimilated form of com-, here perhaps an intensive prefix + tumere 'to swell up' (from PIE root teue- 'to swell'). (Online Etymology Dictionary)
Geoffrey Chaucer was writing about the sin of contumelie, as it was spelled in Middle English, back in the late 1300s. We borrowed the word from Middle French (whence it had earlier arrived from Latin contumelia), and it has since seen wide literary use. Perhaps its most famous occurrence is in Hamlet's To be or not to be soliloquy:
For who would bear the whips and scorns of time,
Th' oppressor's wrong, the proud man's contumely....
That's not to say the word has no use in modern English. For example, political columnist Mona Charen expressed the opinion that then-President Bush had not only been criticized by those on the left of the political spectrum, but had "also suffered the contumely of some on the right and of seemingly everyone in the center." (Merriam-Webster)